COPYCAT

shortiee · Beauty Queen Joined: 15 Dec 2006 Posts: 100 Smiles: 0 69

ok so there's this girl at my school, wlel, my "friend" but i dont really like her much and this is why. she copies me in soooo manything omg it's so annoying!!! i got winter boots, and then she tries to get the same one i do but she's too damn cheap to pay $90 for a pair of good winter boots and then she keeps on trying to find ones for cheap and ended up getting really ugly ones from wal-mart. then i needed to get track pants, and she's not relaly the type of person to wear track pants but then she gets THE SAME ONE I GOT. gosh just STOP IT YOU ANNOYING BITCH. there are sooo many other times, i know some things are a trend, but TRY TO HAVE YOUR OWN STYLE!!! she copies how i do my hair, except she only washed her hair once a week. and like...half her closest is the same as mine basically. but she gets her things like 2 seasons too late, when it goes on sale for super cheap. and it's just REALLY REALLY ANNOYING. she's a size MEDIUM, and she tries too hard to stuff herself into a size XS (im a size xs or xxs) and end up looking like her clothes shrunk too much. she tries too hard to flirt but just ends up sounding like a whiny lil ten-year-old. GRRR i just NEEDED to rant sorry about the long paraghraph. but seriously, she needs to get her own style and stop copying mine you cheapass bitch. and go wash your hair at LEAST twice a week.

gosh i dont even know why im still her friend.

Dsaramina · Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 7:05 pm Post subject:

Well I am going to be quite harsh here, but if you re read what you just wrote you sound like you are about 10 years old.

You need to stop worrying about her and start worrying about yourself. Obeviously you and her have problems with your friendship, and you don't view her as a friend. That needs to be fixed. You need to talk to her about what bothers you and don't be immature and resort to saying things like you're a copycat, get your own style bitch. That is a slight bit immature. Suppose she just likes the clothes you do. It's not a big deal, because I am sure you dress very fashionably.

In fact you should be flattered that she looks up to you as a role model in fashion.
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shortiee · Beauty Queen Joined: 15 Dec 2006 Posts: 100 Smiles: 0 69

i actually talked to her before, and it just doesnt really sink in. and she does copy me, like getting/doing the same things i do right after i did. it's always RIGHT AFTER. i'm pretty sure you would be bothered too if someone copies almost everything you do.

china.doll · Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 4:39 pm Post subject:

I agree with Dsaramina but I know it's annoying for her. Confront her and say "Look, I don't want to hurt your feelings and I'm flattered that you like my style, but it's getting kind of annoying."
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eltramposa_13 · Fashionista Joined: 24 Dec 2006 Posts: 60 Smiles: +2 3578

Yeahh no offense but that was harsh.

Just let the girl be.
and washing your hair once a week? WHO GIVES A DAMN!
and like O-M-F-G! SHE BUYS THINGS WHEN THEY'RE ON SALE?

WHAT A BEEEEYOOOTCH.
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china.doll · Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 7:06 am Post subject:

^sorry, but nothings wrong if you buy stuff on sale.

unless you're just being sarcastic. Icon_ups

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alexisgeek · Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 12:56 am Post subject:

^she was being sarcastic

china.doll · Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 2:06 pm Post subject:

ohh sorry

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serb · Posted: Fri Mar 16, 2007 9:02 am Post subject:

tell her politley but be careful if she says imatation is the best form of flattere
a girl said that to me i forgave her shes "punk" im "prep" and we are really good friends i think shes just trying to find her own style

tropical_pink · Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 7:34 pm Post subject:

Wow, that sounds exactly like me and my friend. I was going crazy cause she kept doing the same thing as me. I'm a vegetarian and then she was like I think Im going to be a vegetarian. And then I was doing a project and she decided to do the same topic as me. I also was doing a protest against animal testing and then she was like oh I want to do that too. It was extremely annoying, and its so hard not to sound like ur whining because ur so sick of them copying you and then when you finally let it all out people are like you should grow up. Hello I dont care if imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, its fricken annoying.

.beautiful. · Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 1:11 pm Post subject:

I don't think Dsaramina was being too harsh. I agree that it is annoying to have people copy you, but I think you're dealing with it in an immature way. Calling someone a copycat makes you sound like you're 8.
Making fun of the fact that she may or may not wash her hair as much as she should is completely irrelevent to her copying you so I don't know why you brought that up.
Anyways, you should tell her how you feel.

EDIT: I just realized that .... was talking about shortiee being harsh, not Dsaramina
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_TNA_ · Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 2:51 pm Post subject:

ughh i have a friend just like this! i was like to her, ooo i really want this sweater, but i never bought it that day. i said i will wait and buy it soon. and 2 days later, she comes over and is wearing that SWEATER!!!!

you can't control what your friend buys, so there isnt too much to do about it. if it is reallllly bothering you, say something to her!

jazuresky · Beauty Queen Joined: 18 Sep 2007 Posts: 240 Smiles: 0 561

it's not "our" style anyway. (same type of clothings are sold in many many stores)...she is not the only person in the world who dresses like you. (i mean just imagine how many ppl are in TNA sweatshirts, lululemon pants and flip-flops?)

if u're THAT bugged by it, DESIGN UR OWN CLOTHES! or buy one-of-a-kind stuff! THEN u will truly be unique.