GRRRRRR

The_Alphabet · Fashionista Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 69 Smiles: +10 53

This might be kind of long, so thanks for reading Happy

So there's this girl, April, and she is/was one of my best friends, but lately she is just acting like a fricken idiot.

First, she has this boyfriend Andrew, and she ALWAYS ditches me to hang out with him. I mean, I get it, she wants to hang out with her boyfriend or whatever...but she never does stuff with me anymore and I'm a little jealous. Instead of eating lunch with me, she either eats lunch with him and his friends, or they go to her house so they can make-out. And that would be totally cool with me if she did other things with me, and if she wasn't always ditching me for him.

Second, she is also friends with this other chick, Sarah, and I hate Sarah sooo much, just for some stupid reasons. Whenever she's not hanging out with Andrew, she's hanging out with Sarah. That means she's not hanging out with me...I guess you could say I'm a little jealous of this too.

Like this morning, me and April were sitting by our lockers, waiting to go to class, and Sarah walks by, and says hey to us and then April gets up and just starts walking with Sarah, without even talking to me, not even saying bye to me or anything. Then in calculus, we were just doing exam review, we were talking and stuff, then just randomly she was like "oh yeah, I'm going to leave to go walk around with Sarah" so i was like ... okayyyy. So then she leaves again, to go hang out with Sarah, and I'm like ...at least you told me this time....
Later, she is like "i haven't eaten in the caf for like 3 weeks" because she always eats with Andrew...so then she went to the caf and picks the spot the farthest possible away from me, but later, I go to tell her something, and she just disappeared again, probably to go hang out with Sarah....
Then in my last class of the day, she shows up with Sarah at the door, and starts pointing and saying "come here" and I am like "me?" and they were like, "no, the girl beside you" and then i was so mad about that.

At the end of the day, I was at my locker to get my stuff to go home and then April and Sarah walk around the corner talking to each other, and they get to her locker, which is right beside mine and they don't even talk to me...not even hi, or anything so i'm like WHAT THE FUCK and I just leave, then they leave too right behind me, and they didn't even talk to me at all.

I mean, I know April's allowed to have other friends than me and she's not my only friend or anything, but I am just so mad that she is acting so ridiculous and i'm like "i want to punch you in the face!!"

Anyways, if you read all this, you're pretty amazing:)

Vee · Beauty Queen Joined: 02 Jan 2007 Posts: 101 Smiles: +5 36

Aww thats totally not cool at all! Have you tried talking to her and telling her how you feel? It may be going past her that you feel like this. If not, she really is not a good friend. Ditching a friend to hang out with your boyfriend a lot is low. Especially if you guys had plans in the first place. And whats up with just randomly getting up and leaving you without a word?? This girl seems like she's not worth your time! If talking to her doesnt work than Id suggest not being too anxious to hang out with her the next time she needs a buddy, maybe then she will get the message!

Hope I helped a little.

Sweet<3 · Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 1:51 pm Post subject:

I know how that feels, right now a good friend of mine is hanging out with this other quite alot. ITs not at bad as you said like we still talk alot and hang out but sonetimes i feel pushed to the side. I say try to hang out or get to know this Sarah girl, its working for me. hope this helps.