yea worst week i've ever had

baabybee · Fashionista Joined: 09 Aug 2007 Posts: 41 Smiles: 0 395

so a few days ago
my mom kicked me out of the family
she told me i was not her daughter anymore
not to talk to her, or call her mom
she said i was allowed to live in the house and stuff
eat the stuff there
but i have no say in what happens in the house
i can go out wherever i want, and she wont care
but as long as im in the house i gotta do what she says
she wont give me money , or buy me anything , etc
at least shes paying for my dance classes still
i mean, this happens to many people
but it's happened too many times

well i guess bottom line..
i'm just sad
you know the feeling when you just feel miserable, whatever you do?
i mean, i can go out whenever now
but not treating like her mom wont be the same
im happy about being able to got out whenever tho
and ive been thinking about keeping it this way
my moms kicked me out of the house too many times
we've gotten into serious fights involving physical harm & the police
my family has problems that just makes us so messed up
my brother has psycological problems
my dad, health
honestly i just feel like shit
i dont know anymore

Shanti · Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 6:32 pm Post subject:

I'm so sorry that all this is happening to you, I know how it feels to have your parents say something along the lines of disowning you. It's a really tough time, but I personally think that times like this are very emotional and in-the-moment and don't last too long, although I guess it depends on the severity of the sitch and the patterns in the past.
Since you're still allowed to live in her house, I think your mom still cares about you... and she's still paying for your dance classes.
I hope the anger subsides though.

On a side note, there's already a thread called "What do you hate?" which is where people post their problems. I'll keep this thread up however.

treecow_ · Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 7:40 pm Post subject:

I wanna hug you right now! I'm terribly sorry that this is happening as well.
I think that lov3ly was along the right lines there. Your mom is probably just really pissed off but you know she still cares about you because shes letting you stay at the house (including meals) and shes paying for your dance lessons. If she honestly did not care about you at all, she would've just thrown you out onto the streets and told you to fend for yourself!
I want to wish you good luck; I hope that you and your mom can solve your problems together in a calm manner and again, like lov3ly said, you can always rant in the "What do you hate?" section. I find it really helps me out to express my anger in writing and also doing a sport intensely but fun as well (like basketball-shooting hoops for me) helps.
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baabybee · Fashionista Joined: 09 Aug 2007 Posts: 41 Smiles: 0 395

blah , its over now
its a little awkward in the family though lol
i feel kinda stupid for overeacting in the moment lol
but yea
thankss for reading that long thing & trying to help me be happier : )

that_gurl8 · Supermodel Joined: 27 Dec 2007 Posts: 548 Smiles: +20 509

Awww, I'm glad everything is okay now. Happy

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t3hmimo · Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 5:26 am Post subject:

it's totally understandable to over react. i knew your mom would still care! =). parents are human too so they say things they regret in the heat of the moment~~

glad it's over! + remember that your happiness is only as deep as what your sorrow carves~
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